achha kya koi bata sakta hai hum humesha logon ko khush kyon karna chahte hai?
it starts ryt from ur parents to siblings to friends to relatives to spouse to kids..and of cors society...........but why????[:O]
most of us care for few ppl around him.............some youths just care for their respective boy/girlfriends....[better known as LOVE] [:)] there r few
individuals who do not know d meaning of siblings and still single..for them parents hold d key..........they live for them......
but how many of them actualy live upto the parents expectation? if not all most of them face a common problem.....better say a common phenomenon....perfection freak parents...parents of 'single kid' want der kid to be perfect one.......but why do they forget ......dat it's d rule of nature dat no one is perfect and to err is human...why cant de accept their 'now imperfect' once bundle of joy the way he is.......unconditionally............is d kid a display item in a dept store!!!!!
what would the poor kid do to satisfy his 'all time expecting parents'!!!!!
run away?
elop?
comit suicide?
indulge into addictions?
get into criminal company?
go for a reckless anti social life?
so that the parents understand the real meaning of a 'bad' kind who is actually a headache........
but why dis kids bother so much that de have to always find a smile on their parents face who i doubt even if they deserve such unconditional care in return of constant nagging for perfecton and ever soaring expectation level..........[parents forum plz dont get me wrong]
well let the god help these modern dat one sided shravan kumars from their parents who r blind from d rat race and cant accept their kids unconditionally with their lil imperfections........
P.S.
1. excuse my rudeness
2 i m talking about dos exceptional parents of single kids [ no survey has been conducted on d topic to my knowledge..so i dont know whether perfection freak parents are more or loving parents are more]
3. nothing intended personal
4. once again parents forum plz dont get me wrong....
5. dis is about d REAL unfortunates ones.....if u can just provide ur care and support....de r around ur corners....aas paas hi hai...u just need to care bas......
thnx for patience [if u have read it]
an observer who feels...
1 comment:
it is a catch 22 condition for both parents and children! if the parents let the child b and he later turns out to be a good for nothing he blames his parents for not motivating him enough, and even if he turns out to b a winner , he says no thanks to you!!
if they expect perfection or performance they are over demanding and unreasonable!
and whatever the child achiees, it is never enough for the parents cause their friend,s chld is doing better and it becomes a question of prestige!
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